What are the relationship tests that life brings? 

Couples who marry young, usually spend the first part of their married life going to school. Many of these couples do not typically have children or other distractions. Therefore, they are able to spend a lot of time together, just the two of them, focusing on their relationship. During this time, they learn what buttons the other has and how to communicate with each other (AddoRecovery.com). 

However, couples eventually graduate from college, and the focus shifts. One, or both, may have aspirations they would like to achieve before having children. At this point, the priority of their spouse can fall below their career goals. As a result, the relationship suffers. 

Another test for the relationship can be financial stress. Financial distress can occur due to a job loss, spending habits, or an unforeseen medical issue. 

As a couple begins to consider bringing children into their family unit, it can be full of positive emotions. However, if a spouse disagrees, or doesn't feel ready, contention can arise. In contrast, infertility may be the new storm you'll walk through together.

Whatever the situation, when things don't seem to fall into place as expected, happiness can turn to fear or resentment. 

Fear, resentment, and stress can ruin a relationship.

What is it that you fear? Is it a fear of an ability to provide? Is it fear of the unknown? Often, what we fear is actually the underlying factor to much of our stress. It is easy to blame another for your feelings. Unresolved stress leads to anxiety, depression, communication breakdowns, and distance. As stressors multiply, emotions do too. Suddenly, you may find yourself in a relationship you're not sure you want to be in. A lack of empathy and understanding is often the culprit that led you to this point. 

Empathy allows us to connect with the feelings of another. When your spouse doesn't understand why or what you're feeling, they likely can not support you in the way you need it. With the help of Terry W. Reese, a trained, licensed therapist, you can discover what you fear. You can reconnect through empathy and understanding. Together, with your therapist, the two of you can get your relationship back on track.



Saving your relationship is the goal.

At Walk By Faith Counseling, our therapeutic processes are in place with the intent to rekindle your relationship. Many times fostering empathy and understanding leads to compassion and healing. 

There is no one-size-fits-all treatment for relationships. At Walk By Faith Counseling, we discuss with you what your needs are, and how to get you there. Together, through faith and hard work, your relationship can be gratifying. 

Call us today at Walk By Faith Counseling to get started on a healthier relationship.